Rushing the process because you’re focused on the end

Squirting: What Is It Really & Why It Happens

It is a way to relax, ‘blow off steam’ and add another dimension of pleasure to the standard female orgasm. This is THE biggest barrier, and is even more important than the physical side, in my experience. Unfortunately, our culture has a tendency to shame women who are sexually open and experimental. These are the areas that when the tension is released, you’ll be able to have such powerful orgasms that it will almost be unbearable.

Better still, it’s got the pleasurable vibrations going, which give a whole new dimension of pleasure to this vibrator. Ready to experience the orgasmic ecstasy of squirting for yourself? If you were born with a vagina, traditional porn might feel as fantastical as science fiction. A shirtless plumber with a six-pack knocks on the door, and within minutes, the helpless homeowner is having the best orgasm of her life. The hard fact of squirting is that not every vulva-having person can do it.

Combine it with kissing, teasing, and other forms of touch to increase arousal and get her wet. Rushing the process because you’re focused on the end goal—whether that’s penetrative sex or making her orgasm. This creates unnecessary pressure, making the experience less enjoyable. Once you’ve brought her to the peak of sexual bliss, don’t forget the aftercare. You can also place your hand on her vulva as seen in the vulva cuddle to comfort her. It’s not just about the sex act; it’s about showing her you care about her pleasure and well-being.

Most women ‘hold back’ during orgasms because we are afraid of losing control. Good lubrication is crucial for squirting, in fact, without it, a pleasurable touch can quickly turn into an irritable friction burn. Most women get the feelings confused and for this reason, they’ll hold back.

Look — having such an intense, out-of-this-world orgasm experience can cause women to react in different ways. She might want your hands on her, or she might want space. Lube up your middle and ring finger, slide those fingers inside of her, and stimulate her g-spot until she’s extremely aroused. Set the stage by making sure that she can focus on ONLY her pleasure, and not have to worry about anything else. You don’t want to be scratching your lady that that index and middle finger.

Squirting is not a requirement for sexual satisfaction, so approach this experience with curiosity rather than expectation. Understanding that every woman’s body is different will help you enjoy the process without stress. In a loving relationship, the man’s job is to create an erotic context that’s comfortable how to make her squirt, relaxed, and arousing enough so the woman can let herself go enough to climax. Additionally, similar to childbirth, there’s also contracting and pushing when trying to create this embellished squirting scene for the camera.

Squirting is releasing a fluid from the urethra during sexual stimulation. It’s different from female ejaculation from the Skene’s glands. Research shows the fluid comes from the bladder filling up before being squirted out. There’s also debate over whether or not all women are capable of squirting. Is squirting like riding a bike, where any able-bodied person can learn with practice?

It is easy to use, and most women love the vibrating sensations. It creates this extra spice sometimes needed to get them to climax.The wand is an all-time favorite and evergreen in the toy repertoire of most of my clients, including myself. Browsethough our selection of squirting thumbnails to enter the video view pages.You’ll have all the tools and features at your disposal to navigate and enjoy  each video with ease. Skip to the parts youreally like, share favorites or add select clips to a playlist for later. No soakingwet trip into the world of sexy squirters would be complete without taking alook at related categories.